1. Start off with a lot of kissing. Women often complain
that men don't kiss them enough especially after they have
been with the for a while. You can never go wrong with long
passionate exploring kissing.
2. Learn how to give her a sensual massage. At least caress
every inch of her body with long soft strokes. She will love
you for this. Kiss and taste every inch of her body except
her vagina. Kiss her neck, breasts, tummy.
3. Spend allot of time touching and stroking her inner thighs.
But don't touch her vagina yet! You want to tease her and
build up the anticipation.
4. After a few minutes of this teasing, gently rest the heel
of your hand right above her pubic hair on her pubic bone
and cup your hand over her vagina. Don't touch her yet but
get your hand so close that she can feel the heat from your
hand. During all of this you should be next to her kissing
her on the mouth or kissing and sucking her breast and nipples.
5. Now take your hand and put to fingers on each side of
her vagina ( you will have fingers split where you have your
1st and 2nd fingers on one side >and your 3rd and 4th on the
other side) and gently and slow the rub the whole area in
a circle clockwise Do this for 2-3 minutes.
6. Spread her vaginal lips apart by spreading your fingers
apart and then bring your finger and her lips back together.
Do this as you continue to rub in the circular motion that
you started in step 5. Do this until you can feel her wetness
seep through to your fingers.
7. Put your middle finger right on the opening of her vagina
and slowly and gently tease and rub around the edge of the
opening. ( You are still next to her kissing her and sucking
her nipples at the same time) Continue teasing her in this
way. Ask her if she likes it or tell her that you love to
touch her as you continue to do this.
8. Very slowly insert your finger in to her vagina about
�" and continue the circular motion. For a minute or two.
( make sure before do this that your fingernails are trimmed
and filed and don. t have any sharp or jagged edged. Or you
will hurt her and ruin the whole process!)
9. Side your finger in deeper to her GSA ( Remember how to
find it above). And slowly massage the area in a small circle
with very light pressure (About the same pressure that you
would apply chap stick or lip balm to you lips with your finger.)
10. After a minute or two of this she will really start moving
and you will see that she is very, very turned on. At this
point you can increase the pressure slightly. And continue
11. You should now add a second finger either your 1st or
3rd which ever you prefer. And continue the motion for 1-2
minutes. Now you will add in three other strokes to the technique.
In the first one you will use both of your fingers and curl
them back toward your palm stroking the top wall of her vagina
and the GSA area right behind the pubic bone. You should start
off with the same pressure that you have been using and you
can use more pressure once she is very aroused!
12. In the second stroke you will hook your fingers around
her pubic bone and put pressure directly on her G-Spot ( remember
it' s about the size of a dime or nickel and will feel a little
rougher in texture than the surrounding area) and make a in
and out vibration type of movement keeping the pressure on
13. The third stroke is very similar to the first but in
stead of curling your finger toward your self for the movement
you will keep your fingers hooked around the pubic bone and
your fingers will keep constant pressure on her GSA, but you
will also slide your finger tips back and forth over the entire
GSA and in and out of that nook where your have your fingers
hooked around the pubic bone.
14. Start with the first new stroke and try that for a minute
or two. Ask her how it feels to her, then try the second stroke
and the third. See which one she feels the best to her. And
continue with one of the 4 strokes you now have learned.
15. Continue stimulation. You may at this point may begin
to feel deep muscle contractions in her vaginal walls and
you may also feel her vaginal muscles tighten around your
fingers. This is a good sign an means she is on her way to
a vaginal orgasm. Alternately you may feel her vagina get
looser and balloon outward and get very wet suddenly this
is also a signal that she is approaching an G-spot or vaginal
orgasm and possibly even a ejaculatory orgasm.
16. At this point she is only a few minutes away from a very
powerful deep vaginal orgasm. It could be anywhere from another
2 minutes to 10 minutes. So keep up the stimulation and also
talk to her and tell her how much she turns you on and tell
her to cum for you, and how beautiful she is. Her mind is
the most powerful sex organ she has so you should stimulate
her mind as well by talking to her. If you know that she likes
to talk dirty then this is the perfect time for that.