I
am a "casual" hobbyist. I use escort service about 4 to
5 times a year. Since I started this activity four years
ago, with only one exception, I had never seen the same
escort more than once. Some people who are reading this
article probably would think this was a result of not getting
good services from my escorts. On the contrary my experience
with escorts has been very positive. Do not get me wrong
I am not suggesting I am escort-savvy. Let's just say I
was unusually lucky.
So
why did I enjoy trying different escorts? I had always presumed
the answer(s) would be obvious, and never given it any serious
thoughts. As I am writing this article I am aware I might
be taking the issue too seriously, and the whole exercise
might be an ingenious self-analysis of a totally irrelevant
subject. Notwithstanding, I am going to give the question
proper attention for what its worth.
"To
look for the ultimate experience." May be. But ultimate
experience is a highly subjective concept. Would I know
when I found it, and stop searching if I found it? I would
not bet my own money on it. So this is not a convincing
answer to the question.
"Variety."
Like any normal men with vital signs I am attracted to women.
In this case I am attracted to women of all types. Tall,
short, voluptuous, petite, I love them all. They all are
good in their own way, though I tend to have better chemistry
with the more mature type. I enjoy exploring their diversities
to the fullest, both sexually and spiritually. But, having
said that, I never went back to learn more about them even
though I had a nice time at our first meetings. So while
"variety" is indeed a very good reason and better answer,
it is not entirely satisfactory.
"Because
it is fun." But then, why is it fun? This, I believe, is
because the process of finding a new escort to spend my
time with is very mentally rewarding.
Finding
good escorts is like finding honest politicians, there are
very few around. Anybody who pursues the challenge has his
own way of approaching it. I am not a trail-blazer I rely
mostly on other people's experience, and that means monitoring
discussion boards ritually for new reviews and information.
In my view, the increasing number of SPs participating in
the discussions is a big step forward. They offer valuable
opinions and experience about their industry, and a glimpse
of their styles and personalities (a characteristic I value
more than any others). Suffice it to say it requires diligent
work to stay on top of the research. I enjoy putting in
the efforts because it is highly educational, entertaining
and addictive.
After
the research and final decision on an escort, and the customary
tasks of exchanging emails and booking the actual appointment,
it comes the anticipation. I like to book my appointments
a day in advance, so it is long and agonizing, and tends
to create anxieties for me. Did I choose the right person?
Would there be any chemistry during the encounter? Would
I "rise to the occasion" spontaneously at the moment of
truth? At the same time, I have a marvelous time imagining
all the delightful things I am going to do when the time
comes. If I were asked to summarize the sensations of anticipation,
I would say it is like mental masturbation.
The
actual meeting is the grand finale, the end of a sensational
roller-coaster ride. At this point the anticipation is finally
over. The person I had been fantasizing is right there with
me. I can actually see and feel her face and body. There
would be no more second-guessing. It is time to concentrate
on the most important matter at hand, and that would be
to do my part to make the encounter an enjoyable experience
for everyone.
As
I said at the beginning I use escort service infrequently.
I do not get to play very often. When I do, I anticipate
it, savor it and emphasize it. I turn the volume all the
way up. No, I do not prepare myself in advance to note all
my sensations during the encounters. But I would if I could.
For me the thrill starts with the research, long before
there are any physical contacts. The entire process has
a lot of elements and excitement that are similar to those
of finding and going on a blind date, but without going
out and the uncertainty whether I would score at the end.
Written
by, "Work in Progress"